Taxes During Divorce: Your Key Questions Answered

Heading into a divorce, you’re likely so overwhelmed with legal, emotional and financial issues that probably the last thing you want to be thinking about is how it’s going to impact your taxes. But considering the tax effects of your decisions can make a big difference to your financial situation down the road.

Here are some major ways that your taxes can be influenced by getting a divorce:

  1. Filing Status: In general, whether you file as Single, Head of Household, or Married Filing Jointly (or Separately) is entirely based on your marital status on the last day of the tax year. If your divorce is final as of December 31, you will file either as Single or Head of Household (if you are the custodial parent to at least one dependent child). If your divorce is still in the works as of December 31, you will have to file Married Filing Jointly or Married Filing Separately. However, there is an exception to this rule: you can file as Head of Household while still married as long as you lived apart from your spouse for at least six months and otherwise fulfill the Head of Household requirements.
  2. Selling Your House: The house is usually among a divorcing couple’s most valuable assets, and selling it can have huge tax implications. You may know that a single person can exclude $250,000 of capital gain upon the sale of their home, and that a married couple can exclude $500,000, so long as they have lived in the house for at least two of the past five years. If the house is sold immediately pursuant to a divorce, each spouse will be entitled to a $250,000 exclusion (so long as the residency requirement is met). Whether to keep or sell the house, and who retains ownership, should be a well-considered decision. For example, if you and your spouse decide to retain joint ownership but only you and your children live in the house, although it may make sense from a financial and tax perspective, that arrangement keeps you and your ex-spouse legally and financially entwined in a way that may not be beneficial to both of you. In such a case, each spouse would be entitled to the $250,000 exclusion upon the ultimate sale of the house, even if only one satisfies the residency requirement.
  3. Spousal Support: For divorces final by the end of 2018, spousal support is generally treated as taxable income to the recipient and deductible by the payor. However, the spouses may choose to opt out of considering payments as alimony for tax purposes, as long as it is recorded in the divorce decree and the recipient spouse attaches the decree to his or her tax return every year of such payments. However, the new tax bill changes all this; for all divorce or separation agreements signed after 2018, alimony no longer has any tax effects.
  4. Child Support: Child support payments have no tax effects — you cannot deduct them if you pay them, and you do not have to include them as taxable income if you receive them. If the payor pays less than the full amount of child support and spousal support, then the partial payment is first considered child support and any remainder is considered spousal support.
  5. Claiming the Children: The custodial parent (who has custody of the child for more than half the year) is entitled to the exemption for the child. However, the divorce decree can award the exemption to the other parent for a period of time; in that case, the custodial parent will be required to file Form 8332, releasing the exemption to the non-custodial parent. The parent claiming the child in any given year may also claim the child tax credit; however, the earned income credit, Head of Household status and childcare expenses may only be claimed by the custodial parent, regardless of which parent claims the exemption.

You may be facing even further tax issues in your divorce: retirement plans, allocating jointly paid estimated taxes or prior year tax carryforwards, property settlements instead of (or in addition to) alimony. For any of these cases, before you sign your divorce decree, it’s wise to consult a financial professional who understands the tax issues surrounding divorce — even better if you can involve them earlier in the process.

Note: Tax laws are constantly changing; the facts in this article are accurate as of January 22, 2018.


About the Contributor | Allison Bishop is a financial coach with twenty years experience as a CPA. She started her financial coaching business in 2015 after seeing a real need for unbiased, sensible, and empathetic financial advice, and earned the Certified Divorce Financial Analyst designation in 2017. Allison graduated from the College of William & Mary in 1997 with a degree in Business Administration, and earned her CPA license shortly afterwards. She started her career with a traditional accounting firm in Washington DC, and then transitioned into forensic accounting and litigation consulting. Upon moving to Maine, she spent twelve years preparing taxes for an accounting firm in Portland. She served as a trustee of the Falmouth Memorial Library for ten years, including six as Treasurer, and recently served as co-chair of the Library’s successful $2.8 million capital campaign.


 

A Financial Neutral’s View of Collaborative Divorce

With almost twenty-five years of advising clients behind me, and as a veteran of dozens of divorce consulting engagements, I can say unequivocally that a Collaborative Divorce is a better divorce.

I am not saying that a Collaborative Divorce is always better in terms of financial outcome for either or both spouses.

I am not saying that Collaborative Divorce is always faster or easier.

I am not saying that it is always cheaper.

What I am saying is that Collaborative Divorce offers the best potential to leave both parties, their children, their in-laws, and anyone else who cares about them in a better place.

Ending a marriage is at best a delicate thing and obviously can be a horrific experience if not handled well. Collaborative Divorce allows two people who were once in love to tease apart their marriage, taking time to reflect on the experience of their soon-to-be ex-spouse and make decisions that will, at worst, be neutral to the ex-spouse and may, on occasion, actually meet some of the ex-spouse’s most meaningful goals . The process is designed to ensure that each spouse comes out of the divorce as emotionally and financially fit as possible.

Addressing concerns about dividing retirement plans and other financial assets, or determining an appropriate amount for spousal support, can be difficult. The full disclosure required by the Collaborative process and a financial neutral’s analysis, however, may help the couple reach consensus on how best to proceed so that each party feels heard and has confidence that their future is as secure as it can be given their circumstances.

Being able to support two people as they do the work of ending their marriage, in a manner that encourages respect of each other and what’s important to each side feels good. As a financial professional, I feel like I am playing a part in helping both sides move past the marriage and through the work of ending the marriage. When the Collaborative Divorce process is complete, all involved can rest assured that they did their very best to create a win-win outcome that both sides can support and embrace.


JAL photo 2 05292012About the Contributor | John LeMieux, principal and cofounder of Anton LeMieux Financial Group, has been guiding clients through the complex world of financial planning and investing since 1993. He left Merrill Lynch in 2009 with his partner Eric Anton to start the group with the specific vision that their clients would be better served in a more holistic practice focused directly on client needs and advocacy. John’s experiences as an entrepreneur, a financial planner, and investment advisor, as well as a college basketball coach, have combined to give him insight into the needs of the individuals, families, family-owned businesses, and nonprofit organizations that he serves.

He is a Certified Financial PlannerTM professional, a Certified Investment Management AnalystTM and a Certified Divorce Financial AnalystTM; but it is his willingness to address the emotional side of his clients’ financial lives that distinguishes him. John believes that to assist clients with complex financial decision making he must address the multifaceted realities of life that underscores the financial facts. In the process of working to address these realities, alongside the specific goals of each client, he endeavors to add value and build a vision for their personal financial needs. It is his view that each client has their own needs and wants in life and that a unique financial plan is needed to adequately address each client’s situation.

John is a founding member of the Maine Collaborative Law Alliance and as a financial neutral has played a lead role in the development of collaborative divorce in Maine.


 

What to Look for in a Financial Neutral

11193761_sThe Financial Neutral works as part of a collaborative team to support the divorcing couple in all areas regarding finances. Investments, debts, budgets, retirement concerns, insurance, spousal support, present value calculations of pensions, and other more esoteric areas may all be addressed.

As part of the collaborative team, the financial neutral is charged with assisting the divorcing partners in the framing, discussion, and decisions around money issues. The financial neutral does not make decisions for the couple but rather provides education and counsel to help the parties understand the key issues facing them and possible solutions to those issues. As the issues and solutions become clear to both sides, the financial neutral candidly and objectively discusses the pros and cons of the various solutions with each party, the collaborative team, and both parties together.

The ability to keep the goals and concerns of each spouse foremost in the discussions with that spouse, while at the same time recognizing and honoring the goals and concerns of the other party, is central to the skill set of a good financial neutral. Being able to empathetically connect with parties on opposite sides of a discussion allows an experienced financial neutral to counsel, educate, and support both parties as they move toward a collaborative divorce agreement. When guided by a competent financial neutral, both parties can leave their marriage with the understanding that they have been fair and honest with themselves and each other around the often tricky and emotionally scary areas of post-divorce money issues.

Beyond having the professional training needed to function as a financial neutral, it is very important that the financial neutral know when to bring in outside experts in areas that are outside of her or his skill set. The goal is always to provide the divorcing couple with accurate, unbiased, and thorough advice to allow them to make the best financial decisions possible as they end their marriage.


JAL photo 2 05292012About the Contributor | John LeMieux, principal and cofounder of Anton LeMieux Financial Group, has been guiding clients through the complex world of financial planning and investing since 1993. He left Merrill Lynch in 2009 with his partner Eric Anton to start the group with the specific vision that their clients would be better served in a more holistic practice focused directly on client needs and advocacy. John’s experiences as an entrepreneur, a financial planner, and investment advisor, as well as a college basketball coach, have combined to give him insight into the needs of the individuals, families, family-owned businesses, and nonprofit organizations that he serves.

He is a Certified Financial PlannerTM professional, a Certified Investment Management AnalystTM and a Certified Divorce Financial AnalystTM; but it is his willingness to address the emotional side of his clients’ financial lives that distinguishes him. John believes that to assist clients with complex financial decision making he must address the multifaceted realities of life that underscores the financial facts. In the process of working to address these realities, alongside the specific goals of each client, he endeavors to add value and build a vision for their personal financial needs. It is his view that each client has their own needs and wants in life and that a unique financial plan is needed to adequately address each client’s situation.

John is a founding member of the Maine Collaborative Law Alliance and as a financial neutral has played a lead role in the development of collaborative divorce in Maine.